Reality is neither good nor bad, it is what it is.

  • Things mostly don’t turn out.
  • People are doing whatever they are doing, and they are hardly ever doing good things, right things, neither for themselves or for you
  • Work is hard, or boring, and to learn anything new you need to feel stupid, weak, incompetent, and you probably are.
  • Things don’t fill you up, and your life is meaningless. You’re responsible for all of it… and it doesn’t feel good at all.

Facing reality needs you to raise your TLB.

Your accurate vocabulary of reality is low, and your vibration is low. With your low numbers, you make poor decisions, you listen to the wrong people, you fancy yourself superior… while your results are pitiful, your actions don’t amount to much, and you suffer.

You will still judge. Why? It is a habit. But you won’t be stuck on that level…

But doing this exercise religiously does several things in your Starting Point Measurements:

  • 1. it takes your attention off me-myself-and-I
  • 2. it forces your awareness to grow, little by little
  • 3. it takes you out of Plato’s Cave, the mind. Inside the mind you cannot do this, you have to come out and look… in reality.
  • 4. it increases your accurate vocabulary AND your worth a damn factor… slowly but surely. Your vibration cannot be far behind…

This exercise is a lot like my “locate your feet” exercise.

What if the person judged is yourself?

In essence, I located my feet.

I have to do this, some days, 10–20–30 times.

Here is another example: your loved one, your spouse or your child is misbehaving in public.

Life alters when you do this exercise the way it is supposed to be done. In reality.


  1. Over 1 TRILLION, that is a thousand billion pages tout the misdirection perpetuated on you!



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Sophie Benshitta Maven

Sophie Benshitta Maven

Publish at Raise your vibration true empath, coach, publisher, mad scientist, living a life that is worth living