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Demanding, extorting to be treated well? What will be your excuse then?
Why is your ITCH ultimately evil?
Evil, inside the reality based work we do here, is defined as ‘desire to receive for the self alone’.
Your ITCH is putting the onus, the responsibility, the demand, and the duty on another to make you whole and complete.
In that process everything they actually do is judged as ‘wrong’. You give them no equal rights to have their opinion, their style, their preference, their likes and dislikes, you want them to adopt your preferences, so you are dominating.
People can’t be free to be themselves around you, because you consider everything they do, say, express as wrong, because it is not what you wanted. Not what you demand, whether you say so or not.
In your ITCH the only person to win is you, and that is what’s evil about it.
Last night, as it is quite usual for me, I could not sleep. I was trying to ‘lead’ this new course in my head… and in the end I got up and came to the computer… because anything and everything I solve in my head in bed disappears by the morning.
