Habits or goals which one will win?
If you ever wondered why you haven’t been accomplishing as much as you intend, wish, desire to accomplish, that quote should be your guide: Whenever there is a gap between your habits and your goals, your habits will always win.
What habits are we talking about? Interestingly, here, we are mostly interested in the how, instead of the what habits.
I have students who seemingly do the right things… but their results fall way behind what the effort would suggest.
The reason is in the how…
How you do anything is how you do everything.
Some people’s how is “I know”, self-certainty. Whatever they touch turns into naught or sh*t, depending on the nature of the thing.
You can see their ‘how’ if you have eyes to see. They, themselves, can’t see it.
Here are a few examples:
- This person needs to be the smart one… or they are ‘worthless’, so they act as if they were smart, although their knowledge is missing, not necessarily the smarts. They never ask questions. They do the same things over and over, expecting a different result, even though if they…
