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How words create and sustain emotions… Emotional Intelligence Part 3
Unfortunately for you, your emotions determine the quality of your life.
If you haven’t, please read part one and part two first…
‘They’ teach you to try to only have positive emotions, but guess what… you only try to have positive emotions on the top of negative ones…
The less emotions you have the higher the quality of your life… Surprised? It’s true.
Imagine you are a baby… You are happy. You are just here to eat and poop.
There is nothing you can or even have to do for yourself, you completely rely on other people, for security, for comfort, for sustenance, to clean you up… everything.
And then you start sensing that for the people who take care of you, you are a nuisance, you are not how you are supposed to be, you are supposed to be different. They express it with their faces, their energy, their demeanor… You are an empath when you are a baby.
You are hungry, you need comfort, you need love… and what you get back is their belligerence, their dutifulness, their reluctance, their resentment. Less than 10% of babies were planned ahead of time, less than 10% are truly welcome to the mother.