Why would you think that someone will judge you? Simple… you have already judged yourself.
But why would you? Not everyone judge themselves. I, for example, don’t… or not often at all. I often assess myself, my behavior, my looks, my stuff… but assessment does not carry condemnation in it, and it doesn’t carry praise in it either.
What is the difference between judgment and assessmentSee footnote 1 ?
The main difference is fixed mindset.
In judgment, the judging person lives as if there were a fixed good or bad, smart or stupid, right or wrong. And then they act as if they were assigned the job of judging…
I have found that people with this combination are unable, unwilling, or resistant to do the work of the Playground.
The Playground is a very simple distinction: separating reality with what you say about it. Your opinion, your narrative, your story, your judgment. Being able to see that reality is reality, and what you say is what you say. No inherent connection between the two.
The moment you get it about any piece of reality, you have a chance to be free.
If you continue collapsing the two independent parts: what happened?/what is so? and your judgment about it, you’ll remain miserable.
This principle is expressed in Henry Ford’s statement: If you say you can, or if you say you can’t, you are right.
Both can and can’t are commentary, but what you see will be modified by your commentary, and that will hide the reality: that you either will or won’t.
I watched Lincoln, the movie over the weekend, and it was quite obvious that this inability or unwillingness to see reality and your opinion, your reaction to it as separate and non-connected is largely missing for people: and it is the secret of human misery. Utter misery.
Every step that has taken me closer to become a happy person has been the result of gaining this clarity, little by little, this ability to separate and uncollapse reality and the interpretation of it. The “what it means”…
It is simple, but it is not easy.
On the way to happiness you’ll have to say good bye to your favorite complaints, your favorite woes… and admit that it was all made up.
Whether you made it up yourself, or took it, uncritically from others is immaterial.
If I asked you if you sat down on a quiet Sunday afternoon to meditate what would be the fastest and surest way to live a life of quiet desperation, to always be on the verge of utter unhappiness… you would say: no I didn’t do it.
And yet you maintain the behavior, the collapsing reality with the story…
The third Playground is scheduled to start in a few days, this coming Saturday, but I won’t start it if there are not enough participants.
It seems that freedom, happiness, grace and ease is not enough for most people to strive for… they want magic, and angels, and superhuman… and anything that will actually make you happy is not big enough for you. Hm.
If you have a soul correction that is marked with x, xx, or xxx on the list below, you’ll have a harder time to cause your transformation, because you feel like your life depends on remaining the same…
Look in your heart and see if you are willing to let go of your skin so you can live a life with a whole lot more happiness, fulfillment and a whole less of misery, complaints, and excuses why you are not all you can be.
And if you are, then register in the Playground. It is very inexpensive, it is once a month, and can produce the kinds of results ten thousand dollar courses can’t: because it concentrates all the energy and all the power on a sticky point, that when it lets go, the sun comes out.
I have seen it time and time again. It is like a miracle, a rebirth, a new lease on life.
If you’d like to do it, but the Saturday afternoon time is not good for you, please let me know. I am flexible.
OK. And here are a few useful quotes for you:
You’re not clever. You don’t know what you want. You have no proper fierceness.
John Steinbeck writes about the importance of individuality and creativity. “And this I believe: that the free, exploring mind of the individual human is the most valuable thing in the world…And this I must against any idea, religion, or government which limits or destroys the individual…If the glory can be killed, we are lost.
“…a man’s importance in the world can be measured by the quality and numbers his glories. It is a lonely thing but it relates us to the world. It is mother of all creativeness, and it sets each man separate from all other man”. this means that the greatness of a man depends on his deeds during his life, which is a sad fact. But these glories or deeds is what gives people individuality and creativeness. Those two traits ultimately makes humans human. It’s why we’re so special.
- assessment: the evaluation or estimation of the nature, quality, or ability of someone or something. My starting point measurements are assessments, even if you take them as judgments. You add the judgment to my assessment!↩
- And here is a list of all the soul-correction numbers and their titles. I marked with one, two or three x’s the soul corrections that are especially resistant to transformation… a different way of seeing the world, namely uncollapsing what happened and what you said about it. And then some soul corrections refuse to see things any differently:
- marked x: resistant
marked xx: unwilling
marked xxx: unable
- 1 — Time Travel
2 — Recapturing The Sparks
3 — Miracle Making
4 — Eliminating Negative Thoughts
5 — Healing
6 — Dream State
7 — DNA Of The Soul
8 — De-fusing Negative Energy And Stress
9 — Angelic Influences
10 — Looks Can Kill
— x11 — Banishing The Remnants Of Evil
12 — Unconditional Love
13 — Heaven-On-Earth
14 — Farewell To Arms
15 — Long Range Vision
16 — Dumping Depression
17 — Great Escape
18 — Fertility
19 — Dialing God
20 — Victory Over Addictions
21 — Eradicate Plague
— x22 — Stop Fatal Attraction
— xx23 — Sharing The Flame
24 — Jealousy
25 — Speak Your Mind
26 — Order From Chaos
— x27 — Silent Partner
28 — Soul Mate
— x29 — Removing Hatred
30 — Building Bridges
— xxx31 — Finish What You Start
32 — Memories
33 — Revealing The Dark Side
34 — Forget Thyself
35 — Sexual Energy
36 — Fearless
37 — The Big Picture
— xxx38 — Circuitry
39 — Diamond In The Rough
40 — Speaking The Right Words
— xxx41 — Self-Esteem
43 — Defying Gravity
44 — Sweetening Judgment
45 — The Power Of Prosperity
46 — Absolute Certainty
47 — Global Transformation
48 — Unity
49 — Happiness
50 — Enough Is Never Enough
51 — No Guilt
52 — Passion
53 — No Agenda
54 — The Death Of Death
55 — Thought Into Action
56 — Dispelling Anger
57 — Listening To Your Soul
58 — Letting Go
59 — Umbilical Cord
60 — Freedom
61 — Water
62 — Parent, Teacher, Not Preacher
63 — Appreciation
64 — Casting Yourself In A Favorable Light
65 — Fear Of God
66 — Accountability
67 — Great Expectations
68 — Contacting Departed Souls
69 — Lost And Found
70 — Recognizing Design Beneath Disorder
71 — Prophecy And Parallel Universes
72 — Spiritual Cleansing
- of course the 72 names of god are a three Hebrew phrase each, and have no meaning… or not really. they are power combinations… But here is another interpretation of those three letter combinations:
- 01 — Return to creation — time travel “back to the future”
02 — Return to embryonic state — recapture sparks of soul
03 — Miracle making
04 — Removal of negative thoughts
05 — Healing
06 — Build vessel to achieve a truthful & dream state
07 — Bring order into your life by connecting to your soul
08 — Remove negative energy — from yourself or others
09 — Accessing angelic network to bring order
10 — Protection from evil eye & bad dreams helps rebirthing process
11 — Banishing the remnants of evil and inflated ego
12 — Transform hatred through unconditional love
13 — Personal transformation to achieve inner messiah
14 — Achieving a peaceful solution to avert conflict
15 — Seeing the consequences of impulsive behavior
16 — Removing depression after a personal setback
17 — Removing ego
18 — Build your vessel & spiritual DNA of fertility
19 — Remove static/ego so prayers are answered
20 — Strengthen spirituality for victory over addictions
21 — Strength to go the extra mile & eliminate sickness
22 — Priestly blessing for wellness & removing negativity
23 — Priestly blessing to share the light force
24 — Remove slavery to physical matter and jealousy
25 — Courage to speak your mind/tell the truth
26 — Bring order out of chaos through completion
27 — Become partner with light to create abundance
28 — Breaking judgment
29 — Cleansing hatred from your heart
30 — Reducing ego builds a bridge to upper worlds
31 — Finish what you start/overcome obstacles
32 — Breaking cycle of repetitious mistakes
33 — Reveal your dark side removes self centered nature
34 — Letting go of stubborn ego
35 — Connect to spirituality ignites sexual energy
36 — Conquer your fears / incapacitate panic attack
37 — Grasping the big picture behind our obstacles
38 — Circuitry of receiving for sake of sharing
39 — Transform life’s hardships into blessings
40 — Power of correct words to transform reality
41 — Priestly blessing for wellness & spirituality wholeness
42 — Connecting to spiritual secrets
43 — Elevation of spiritual over physical controls destiny
44 — Remove and sweeten the judgments against us
45 — Control ego to summons the forces of prosperity
46 — Absolute certainty in the light force of God
47 — Global transformation begins in your own heart
48 — Unity through sensitivity and tolerance
49 — Ask what your soul needs not what your ego wants
50 — Break judgments to awaken spiritual growth
51 — Power of repentance to repair past sins
52 — Correct consciousness in prayer
53 — Power of Archangel Michael & loving kindness
54 — Immortality to cancel death
55 — Commitment to achieve your goals
56 — Eliminate “idol worship” of anger, ego, money
57 — Remove limitations to cross your personal Red Sea
58 — Drawing down the light to do battle for us
59 — Divine umbilical cord to remove spiritual darkness
60 — Delivery from emotional bondage/negative patterns
61 — Physical & spiritual healing through energy of water
62 — Live your truth by example, be teacher not preacher
63 — Create appreciation, humility, and gratitude
64 — Project positive aspects of yourself to others
65 — Knowing consequence of bad behavior/fear of God
66 — Eliminate self pity, victim’s mentality, and revenge
67 — Overcome disappointment from expectations
68 — Making contact to help elevate a departed soul
69 — Wisdom — to find & not lose sight of direction
70 — Remove blockages for financial success
71 — Prophecy and intuition to transform consciousness
72 — Spiritual cleansing improves negotiations
- What is your soul correction?
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