Self-awareness… How to shift your state of being, how to toughen up?

What is the easiest method to shift someone’s state of being?

We already know. Children, when they cry because they hurt themselves, can be brought out of crying by directing their attention to something more interesting, more engaging.

We use it in the Soaring Method.

I use it in almost every coaching conversation I have with people who are stuck in some unproductive state of being, like sadness, despair, maybe even resistance.

State of being, mode of being, beingness… all are outside of what you call self-awareness…

Self-awareness on the level of human is all physical and emotional.

Self-awareness on the level of human being is 90% about being aware of your state of being, your mode of being, your beingness.

Why? and why the difference?

Humans are a cross between animal and human being, closer to animal.

Adding the capacity to shape your being, to call your being into existence, awareness of your state of being is a big jump. It is an…