The benefits and the drawbacks of being coached by a true empath

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Most people, including coaches, are too wrapped up in their thoughts, in what they want, etc.

They cannot see outside of it… In essence they are locked into the nine dots… the famous exercise.

Here is another one I learned this morning, and I fell into the same nine dots trap…

A father and a son has a car accident. The emergency services take them to different hospitals given their injuries.

The surgeon in the son’s hospital washes in and enters the surgery and suddenly says: I can’t operate on this person. He is my son!

Who is the surgeon.

This is not a puzzle for now… because I want to use it to teach something. I was in the world of father son… so I immediately assumed (the nine dots!) that the surgeon was a male. A person cannot have two fathers, but I could not puzzle it out, that a person has two parents… duh, and therefor the surgeon must be his mother.