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Today’s solution is tomorrow’s bigger problem.
Humans, YOU, want to fix things…
Fixing is forceful, and narrow cone of vision.
Today’s solution is tomorrow’s bigger problem.
Your identity, the things you are known for, your typical behavior have all been fixes… solution to some perceived problem and now you are like a puppet on a string… powerless, inauthentic, and incapable of being happy, peaceful, joyful, and fulfilled.
For example, I experienced getting hurt because I trusted someone… so I decided to never ever ever ever trust anyone again… I became fiercely independent… in everything.
I got punished for asking my mother for supplies for my architecture studies… so I became someone who can do anything, and never ask for a thing.
You decide to be a slacker, a thief, brilliant, overachiever, dutiful or diligent, or talk too much, be forceful, be whatever… to solve a problem you experienced as a child.