Want more, better, different than what you have? Here is my contribution to the “manifesting” craze

It seems that people live with a desire way bigger than their skills, their opportunities, their earning capacity, their level of focus, their will power would fulfill.

Desire for stuff, desire for recognition, desire for opulence, status, love, travel, all known to cost you… but who wants to pay? right?

So methods of magic justified with “science” have been popping up.

They say: create with your mind
They say: manifest
They say focus on what you want
They say: want it really really really
They say: place your order to the Universe
They say raise your vibration so what you want will come to you.

So let’s look at this last one, because this falls into our expertise: we raise people’s vibration here… we raise people’s consciousness.

Does this “your vibration will attract what you want” work like a rule?
Does this “raise your vibration” thing really make you a manifesting machine?

Or is there something, in the invisible, that is at work, looking like manifesting to you?

Because it is true: higher vibration people seem to have more, love more, enjoy more, get what they want more often than lower vibration people.

But why? Or how?

They say: you need to be grateful for what you have… that is the key to manifestation. And maybe this is the hardest thing to do… and yet.

Why is gratitude such a difficult state to reach? 1 Especially when it being grateful for what you you have even if it is not enough for you or not what you want?

Human nature is to want what you don’t have… and discount what you have, until someone wants to take it away. They you’ll attack that someone as if you were a mother bear… tooth and nail… or fangs and claws.


Whether it is status, a possession, self-image, you react with vengeance to protect it.

A few years ago I saw this with a student: she hated, despised her husband, and in every time we talked she had a complaint about him.

Then one day her husband suggested that if she hated him so much, maybe they should separate… And then she turned completely around.

The threat of loss made her fall in love with her good-for-nothing husband, again. She started to redirect her attention to the good things about him, away from the bad things…

Not positive thinking, mind you, just redirecting your attention. She also took, accidentally, herself out of the picture, and without her in the picture, he looked a whole lot better.

This devaluing what you have until the idea of losing it comes to mind is one of the reasons people don’t do what it takes to turn their desires into something they are willing to do something for or about…

Ambition vs Desire

A desire that you are willing to work for, willing to change for, willing to risk for, willing to study for is called ambition around here… I don’t care what other people, or even the dictionary means by ambition, that is what I mean when I use the word.

It is NOT greed, not climbing over other people’s back, not nasty, not ruthless, not what some of my students think it is.

No, ambition is when what you want and willingness to do what it takes are on the same page.

And this, ambition, is actually easier to attain than trying to go for gratitude, which is not available until you raise your vibration to 390.

The willingness to do for what you want, ambition, needs you to have 170 vibration, which is not that difficult to get to.

The average vibration of people in the United States of America is 130.

If you have magical thinking without the willingness, if you have high desire and low ambition, your vibration is probably around 100.

Is it enough to get to a vibration of 170?

For what, I might ask, but let’s consider that you, the reader, want to get out of life all you can… so that is why you are asking.

The answer is: no. It is not enough.

What is in the way, what else needs to change?

You can have high vibration and still no “manifestation” is forthcoming. The three things that need to change for you to manifest are these things.below. If you don’t have these, you are still not in harmony with the Universe. Harmony with Life. In harmony with reality.

  • 1. you need to remove wrong from your view. Wrong is entirely made up, there is no wrong in the Universe.
  • 2. you need to remove “missing”, lack, from your view… there is nothing missing, nothing lacking in the Universe.
  • 3. you need to let go or control your reactive nature, we call it TLB, where you want to, need to, should fix what seems wrong. Forcefully. Immediately.

Now why do you need to do these three things?

Because if there is wrong, if there is missing, they cause you to be tense… to force, to resist, and therefore block what you want.


When your visual field is occupied with what you don’t want, what is missing, and yourself, you are looking away from what you really want.

It is like trying to want to get to the second floor by looking at the first floor as wrong, because the bedroom is not there, or the bathroom is not there, or you cannot see much from the window. Instead of just simply going to the second floor and find there want you need, the bedroom, the bathroom, the view.

It’s that simple. In life. Really.

In my Starting Points Measurements I measure to what degree you have control over your attention. You can see, that unless you have a lot of control, you’ll spend only minutes in the right direction… and that will not be enough to get in harmony with what you want.

The fastest way for me to find out, in a conversation, how much chance someone has to “manifest” is to ask them what it is they want for their life. Something that is worth having a life about?

If you spend your life in judgment, in looking at what you don’t want, you’ll have a hard time seeing what you want for your life.

I have a few people who have a canned answer: I want a business, I want to be a businessman… Or I want to be a millionaire.

But looking at their day to day life, it is obvious that they don’t want that, or their lives would be consistent with that: they would start running their lives as a businessman, a millionaire, or whatever the hell they said they wanted.

I was, years ago, mesmerized by the quote from a famous Himalayan expedition person, William H. Murray

“Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness.

Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth, the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one’s favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way.”

Famous romantic German poet Goethe wrote:
“Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it.
Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it.”

Now, let me look what is the vibration of the behavior, the conduct, the level of trust of this quote, we find that it vibrates at 250. Not unattainable level of vibration.

Commitment is the secret sauce… that allows you to turn around and keep your eyes on the ball… on where you want to go.

But even before that, you may want to commit to spending time ferreting out what you actually want, where you actually want to go… instead of where you don’t want to go.

Why are you unable or unwilling to look there?

Choosing is risky. Choosing threatens you with having to say good-bye to most of the things that fill your life now.

So even looking for what you could want instead of what you have feels threatening… You are afraid that while you are not looking at your life, something bad may happen… lol.

I am 70 years old. I have had this choosing/committing experience a number of times.

I have found that the William H Murray quote is 100% true: until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness.

What he doesn’t say and maybe he should, is that committing is an act of choosing. Choosing to turn away from some things and turn towards something that is not yet… so for quite a while it is fear and uncertainty that you need to be able to face… and NOT RUN BACK TO THE KNOWN AND FAMILIAR.

In observing my students, this is where most drop the ball. They can sustain the new direction for a day, maybe even four days… but then they run back to what they intended to leave.

So what should you do if that is you: no track record of you sticking with much of anything?

I think that choosing is like a muscle. Facing uncertainty and not running is like a muscle. Experiencing bad feelings is like a muscle that can be developed.

I think I started to develop that muscle when I was 13 years old and spent a whole summer practicing the violin, instead of being outside, playing. Climbing trees. Going to the pool to swim. Because I had chosen something for my life that I said was important.

Looking back, I can see T. Harv Eker’s wisdom, when he said: it wasn’t the millions he got out of his journey that he was proud of. He was proud of who he needed to become to have those millions.

Your journey is not a direct one way ticket to paradise… it is a journey that has many legs.

If you never start, you’ll never arrive.

If you are not willing to start slow, you are not willing and not going to get there.

So what can you do?

You can try Stephanie Mulac’s vibration jumping system… and see if it works for you.

If you buy it and come back to share your experience with me, I’ll gift you with a bottle of my Heaven on Earth energy remedy.

Why that remedy? You see when you need to, want to, have to choose, fear, anxiety, lack of self confidence, and other bad feelings will come up, and try to discourage you. The Heaven on Earth has a counter energy to all of those… and more. A total of 41 energies delivered in every drop of the remedy.

There is nothing else in the bottle, only the energies infused in the pristine energized water… plus a little bit of vodka to keep the water from getting stale.

No chemicals, just energy. Precise energies to hit exactly what is trying to hold you back.

Given that I get paid a commission as soon as you buy that Vibration Jumping product, I can offer you a bribe: Buy one bottle of the remedy and get a second one for free.

As you start that program… because you’ll need what the remedy can do for you. That is: if you want to be able to manifest.

PS: I am very familiar with choosing. I am quite masterful at it.

  • I have gone from country to country with nothing else but the clothes on my back.
  • I have left bad relationships.
  • I have changed profession and occupation several times before I got to the one that I can spend the rest of my life with.
  • I have dropped 50 pounds so now I am at my ideal weight.
  • I have changed my diet so I can be healthy and energetic… even though I was sick for most of my life… It is in my genes…
  • I have changed my habits and personality to be at least somewhat likeable… lol.
  • I have changed my relationships so there is trust and love there.

All of those changes are easier if you have energetic, emotional support from the Heaven on Earth remedy






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