What can you see in the sideways view?

Even if you have the driftwood capacity activated, you have to learn what it is like to be looking.

Yesterday’s article about assumptions should clue you in: you mostly are stuck with your assumption: you have never really looked and seen.

It seems that to observe, to look, to look until you see something is not a low-vibration person activity, and most people ARE low vibration… so most people never look.

The ones that do are famous at least in what they do for a living.

Quentin Tarantino… Albert Einstein, Ayn Rand.

It really seems that this capacity to look and see is very rare.

Even people who have it, don’t necessarily use it to the hilt.

It never occurred to one of my students who uses the driftwood capacity in his work to actually observe, for example, what greed, or neediness looks or feels like when observed.

We may know what it feels like to feel needy… but we don’t know what it looks like.

Neediness is like a repellent: whatever you needy for eludes you, avoids you, so it would be really useful to know what it is like from the outside…

How do people know that you are needy? Right?