What Is The Most Important Capacity To Master?

This article is about comparing… I wrote it eight years ago… It is evergreen…

Ever since Saturday I have been observing myself putting myself down, devaluing myself. Telling people I am not such a good coach, etc. etc. etc.

I know what happened. I know exactly.

I watched this guy’s videos, I read his testimonials, I heard his superior facility to guide people and take them where he wanted them to go. I watched his 24/7 tireless enthusiasm to turn marginally interested people into fans. And I compared.

I compared.

You compare, all the time, don’t you? Yourself with others, others with others, others with their previous performance, others with what could be the best, others to what is right, others to what is generous… and so on and so forth.

It sounds innocent, doesn’t it? And yet, it’s toxic. Totally damaging to who you are.

And it’s totally human. It is totally mind. And… let’s see what we can observe about comparing: