What’s important to you? Do your actions mirror that?

Sophie Benshitta Maven
2 min readApr 17, 2019

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Just look at your actions. Words are cheap. Only what you do counts, only what you do testifies about what is important to you.

It seems that being right, looking good, avoid domination of anyone or anything, including your own word, hoping, expecting the impossible… etc, etc, has been really important to you.

Where you are is where you are supposed to be, given all your actions.

Do all actions count? Talking, thinking, watching videos?

Only to a certain degree.

One of the people who have inspired me for many years is Werner Erhard, the founder of the est training.

What did he do?

He had hundreds of projects at different stages of development. Some were just ideas, others were ready to run on their own without much input from him.

What he did is this: he “injected” some energy, with some action, into each of them, at least a few times a week.

Tiny actions. None taking longer than two minutes of his time. A short phone call, an idea jotted down, tiny actions.

This two minutes thing is, by the way, from David Allen of Getting Things Done fame. I have been following this “rule” for two decades, and it is a life-saver.

Your mind, your spouse, your emails will suggest actions all the time… OK, some of them even DEMAND actions.

These demands break up your life into tiny fragments. You are now doing someone else’s bidding, you are building their life, and that makes you run around like a chicken without a head… the innate rhythm and design of your day is gone, and you are at best gathering the pieces to live your own life… if any time, any energy is left over.

The demands suggest urgency, the demanders’ tone of voice suggest urgency… but nothing is urgent!

Nothing needs to get done in that same minute, unless it is a broken water main, or a fire.

Continue reading on my site: yourvibration.com

Author: Sophie Benshitta Maven

True empath, award winning architect, magazine publisher, transformational and spiritual coach and teacher, self declared Avatar View all posts by Sophie Benshitta Maven

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Sophie Benshitta Maven
Sophie Benshitta Maven

Written by Sophie Benshitta Maven

Publish at Raise your vibration www.yourvibration.com true empath, coach, publisher, mad scientist, living a life that is worth living

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