Sophie Benshitta Maven
3 min readNov 22, 2023

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the culture of abuse

Who Perpetuates The Culture Of Abuse, The Culture Of Measuring Man And Woman’s Rights Differently? The Men Or The Women Of A Culture?

This is a controversial article. it will offend people. Rattle their. traditions. But unless someone speaks, nothing will change. I am taking on the risk to be that someone… When I see something, I can’t just step over it… OK, kill me now… lol

WTF are you talking about Sophie: of course it is the men! If women ran the world there would be peace… There would be love. There would be trust… Wrong… please think again. Look again Who are the people we learn everything from. Everything that we repeat, unconsciously, in life? 80–90% of it we learn from our mother. Or some other woman, a nanny, a wet-nurse, a grandmother. And then, unconsciously, we play out the life-plan that these women implanted in our subconscious. If the men of a society are vicious and cruel: you can make sure their mother encouraged them to be that way. I am not talking about an individual phenomenon: individuals don’t get to aberrate independent of a society’s or culture’s ‘declared’ values. No, I am talking about the standard. The everyman. The norm. The ‘normal’. How does this work? I have been struggling with this for about five months. And this week I had an insight that has finally set things straight for me, however crooked things are… lol.

the culture of abuse

I have been observing two cultures. I won’t mention names, if you don’t belong to them, you’ll feel ego-pride, if you belong to them you’ll feel ego-anger, self-righteousness, or ego-guilt… that is not what I want this article to produce. That would be more of the same… In both cultures boys are the prize. Their mother treated them like a prince. Spoiled them rotten. And the future wife is treated as a competitor. Both cultures have a reverse Oedipus syndrome: the mother is the one in love. They claim ownership over their sons, and hate, gossip about, undermine their daughters in law. They encourage bodily abuse. They rejoice over it. What is underneath it? What perpetuates this morbid behavior? Ego. ‘I didn’t have it any better, so why should she?’ The same attitude towards another that allowed Rabbi Akiva’s 24 thousand students to die during the plague. In cultures where a wife’s name is ‘shut up!’ where a wife will do what a wife can do. These cultures share: the wife will give all their love to their sons, and will make sure that their son’s wife won’t have it any better than them.

the culture of abuse

The commandment: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself’ is designed to circumvent it, but it has not made any difference. And who perpetuates the ‘evil’ among us is women. Mothers. Who can stop it? Mothers. Mothers, you are the power of the physical universe. One of my jobs is to connect you to Source where you get the love you need, the love you want, the love you miss, so you can let go of ‘loving’ your sons. So you can let go of being possessive of them. So you can let go of sending your daughters into a life of torture and abuse, willingly. If you recognize your culture, work with me. The world won’t be a better place as long as you perpetuate this evil. The time to begin is now. . 5000 more of my articles on my site, yourvibration.com

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Sophie Benshitta Maven

Publish at Raise your vibration www.yourvibration.com true empath, coach, publisher, mad scientist, living a life that is worth living