You can’t fix being human

You can’t fix being human

..that is one of the disappointing things you learn when you do work with me. I won’t feed you baloney like “you are a spiritual being having a human experience…” and other garden variety horse manure.

The other half-sentence is just as disappointing: “you can’t get out of this life alive…”

These two half-sentences address 70% of the popular delusions of humanity.

When you internalize these truly, when you start to be energized by them then your vibration will jump 50 points or more.

You may have to go through mourning… and the phases of it…

The five stages, denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance are a part of the framework that makes up our learning to live with the one we lost. They are tools to help us frame and identify what we may be feeling. But they are not stops on some linear timeline in grief.

The death of a pet idea, the death of a hope is as painful as the death of a loved one. And even when it’s done, it is never done… This past week I went through all the stages with my father, who died 24 years ago. When he did die, I got myself a sick kitten and avoided all of it… So it was 24 years overdue.