You don’t actually create your own reality with your thoughts

Yesterday I had one of the rare one-on-one calls, and the client said: “You create your own reality”

You’ve heard me say: truth repeated is a lie… and most of the time I don’t know how to explain why it is… but this is one of the times when I can.

You see, reality is the same no matter who is looking at it. What you create is not reality. What you create is your vantage point. Your attitude. The context inside which you look at reality.

But not reality.

So what really changing is is the occurrence.

Occurrence is a technical term for reality plus what you say about it.

You may have observed women having a glow when they get pregnant, or when they are in love.

They interact with reality as if it were a gift.

Or men when they get lucky the night before. There is sh*teating grin on their face. You can burn their toast and they don’t mind.

We all have a default attitude. Attitude is a result of words, so what you say about everything is your attitude.